Men and woman. Different species but should respect each other?

I recently posted a question about my wife flirting with a guy co worker that we both work with..i received mixed responses. #1 let me stat that men are men..we can turn off emotion and turn on the little man down stairs VERY quick..we think about sex and sexual attractiin first...woman are mire emitional and like to receive compliments..thats fine..but if you are married its different. Especially when your husband notices this guy putting moves on his wife..if arguing and telling her that it bothers me emotionally for her to do this, the least she can do is quit the mind games and respect her husbands wish...LADIES if shoe was on other foot, and your man wasvflirting with a woman at work and she was looking for him and giving him rides home..i.doubt you would feel comfortable with that..NOW my last post about " wife flirting how much is too much" ..i must clarify some things..the ride home she needed was opitional..she rides train home every nite, she could jave opted for that, instead this jerk jumped in and immediatley offered..secondly she had his cell number in her phone...very unappropriate..thirdly, she continues to let this man talk to.her all the time, nit giving a f#@$ about.my feelings..so how.much does she respect me? I think you got involved into the plutonic and convesate things to.much and didnt look at overall picture..if something deeply bothers my wife emotionally, I listen, respect and STOP..this on going thing is a form of emotional abuse..thanx for the comments on my last post..but the answersvare very gender lopsided..